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Want To Meet The Right Guy? Stop Looking!

dating-mr-rightYou’ve looked everywhere. And probably even dated every single guy. But you still haven’t found the right guy. What are you to do?

Well if it’s any consolation, you’re not alone. You’re not the only one that hasn’t found the right guy. Look around you. You’ll find a lot of women looking for the right guy.

What Exactly Are You Looking For?

But the question is this. What exactly are the qualities you’re looking for? Have you actually really thought about it? Have you taken the time to actually list down all the qualities that you’re looking for? If not, then maybe you don’t know what you’re looking for.

That’s where the problem is. You’re looking for something. But you don’t know what it is. That’s pretty hard to do. Chances are, you won’t find what you’re looking for. How can you? You don’t know what you’re looking for.

Here’s a suggestion that can save you your precious sanity. Find out what you’re looking for. Write down the qualities if you have to. That can give you a clear cut picture of what you want. From there, you’ll be able to see the right guy.

Hold On To Your Wishlist

So write down all the qualities you want. Then make that your wishlist. Hold on to it. Why? Because chances are, you’ll soon forget what you’ve written down. That’s the sad truth. You can actually forget the qualities that you’re looking for. And if you forget them, you get all confused. Again, you’ll be looking for something that you’ve no idea about. That takes you back where you started.

So here’s a bit of an advice. Stick to your wishlist. If you want, make it your official dating checklist. This will come in handy every time you’re on a date. Finally, you’ll understand why you like him. And you’ll also understand why you don’t. Now, that’s going to help you find the right guy.

You Can’t Hurry Love

Analyze yourself. Be honest. Are you trying too hard? You can’t consider every single guy as Mr. Right. That just shows how desperate you are. At the same time, you can’t reject every single guy. If he’s lacking in some qualities, give it a shot. You can’t cross him out right away. Diana Ross and Phil Collins were right. You can’t hurry love.

Seriously, you just cannot speed up the whole dating process. Even if you were speed dating, it still wouldn’t be easy. You still wouldn’t be able to find Mr. Right. At least, not right away.

Don’t Rush

So girl, take your time. Don’t rush it. And if I may suggest, enjoy it. I’m sure someone has already said this to you. But I’ll say it just the same. Girl, you have the whole world ahead of you. Okay. You can shoot me for saying that. But it’s true.

You really want to meet Mr. Right, right? Then you need to take it easy. Stop looking for some kind of sign. Stop waiting for a white dove to appear. Stop waiting for a bouquet of roses to be delivered to you. And finally, stop rushing.

Take your time to really know what you’re looking for. Then hold on to that. Put in some considerations from time to time. But hang on to the main qualities. In due time, you’ll be able to visualize Mr. Right.

It’s really not easy to date these days. You’ll meet all kinds of guys. But if you have that one guy in mind, you’re safe. You don’t have to keep om looking. It’ll be easy for you to find Mr. Right. And you wouldn’t have to look so hard.